Question
Do you currently share goals and dreams for your life together?
My answer
We have both said that we want to move back to Australia, start a family, buy a house and try to keep travelling every year to somewhere new.
Quick take
Sharing a passion makes it easier to share a life.
My prognosis
Although the author says that answering no to this question doesn't mean anything in particular, I think the bare bones of it is that it's a yes for me here. That is only considering if my partner genuinely wants the same things. I worry sometimes that his lack of commitment might mean that he doesn't want these things, but this whole exercise has shown me that we have a lot of issues to sort out if we are going to make it to this point anyway.
Do you currently share goals and dreams for your life together?
My answer
We have both said that we want to move back to Australia, start a family, buy a house and try to keep travelling every year to somewhere new.
Quick take
Sharing a passion makes it easier to share a life.
My prognosis
Although the author says that answering no to this question doesn't mean anything in particular, I think the bare bones of it is that it's a yes for me here. That is only considering if my partner genuinely wants the same things. I worry sometimes that his lack of commitment might mean that he doesn't want these things, but this whole exercise has shown me that we have a lot of issues to sort out if we are going to make it to this point anyway.
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